What you have observed is basically true, they didn’t use sealer back in “the Day”. But they changed their mind and came up with their own sealer. General rule is use it on gaskets that come in contact with water, including head gaskets—Except the ones that are pre-coated. Don’t use it where squeeze-out will cause problems such as reed plate and carburetors.
Lot’s of opinions on this subject.
BTW, gaskets themselves have changed too. The old ones had asbestos fibers.